Cemeteries Forgotten


Cemeteries were started, used then sometimes forgotten.
Even the soldiers who died in the massacre of Bloody Ridge are now lost,
unmarked and forgotten. Many of the old cemeteries
are unmarked and forgotten. Even the old stones get
weathered and become unreadable. Note Brick sealer can stop that for a while.
In the old days family members were often buried within a few hundred feet
of where they died because they did not have a wagon or horse to carry the remains.
Burials were often on the family farm. In most
of history coffins were not even used. This was because
the family or what was left of it did not have the wood, tools, skill or strength
to make one. With epidemics often family members were laid side by
side in common graves. Often several family members
died within a short time. What was left of families
simply piled stones on the grave site. Years later
under new owners the forgotten graves became again farmer’s field.
There were few if any gravestone makers available to families.
Many families were in shock and extremely poor. Many
people died of conditions we have cures for now. Many
children and women died as a result of childbirth. Many
children died young.
There were so many orphans that an orphan asylum was
active in
In
By the 1960s it was overgrown with Lilac shrubs that
waved in the breeze. The Lilacs were planted by other families to mark the
burial places but had become overgrown over the years. The family was forced by
economic reasons to sell the property. The school district would have taken the property anyway
as they wanted to build a school there. It was transferred
about 1966. Mrs. Ida Weier told the school district
that it was a burial ground and wanted all remains to be treated in a Christian
manner. Bunert family burials were removed and reinterred at the
burial
ground. One contractor dug a load of dirt for fill dirt and dropped
it off on someone’s property. The homeowner
receiving the fill dirt found sculls and human bones and called the police who
contacted the contractor. Imagine asking for fill
dirt and getting human remains dropped off in your driveway. Wow was he in trouble.
It wasn’t very long when that kids were also showing off human remains from
the mound. That finally got the officials attention.
The school district wanted everything hushed up so no archeologists were called
in and in fact it was them who hired a funeral director.
The school certainly did not anyone to discover that this was anything
other than a single family burial plot. But human
remains of at least 40 humans were removed from what was left of the mound and
the rest of the area was not explored. Historian Wesley
Arnold states that he saw movies of this mound being excavated. William DuRoss the funeral director mentioned that Theuts,
Greens, Hessels, and Schoenhers were probably buried there. So it was for sure a pioneer cemetery. Whether or not it was also the remains of an Indian burial
ground had not been determined by scientific investigation and will never be never
known as the evidence has been removed and scattered. And even though a few bones were removed the balance of
the remains of those pioneer families remain underground. This historian does
not believe in ghosts but must report many of sightings over the years by homeowners
adjacent to the
There were burials on farms and unknown locations prior
to this time some without so much as a casket and since tools were poor many were
in very shallow graves or mounds. The Warren Historical Society was just recently
informed about a grave next to a house on
The
The Center Line St Clement parish cemetery was established
about 1850. Many pioneers OF
What are you doing in the cemetery
with that shovel?
Wow did he get some strange looks as he walked around
the cemetery with a shovel and his camera. He almost
got locked in when Chief Norman Smith locked the gate. He
looked at Wes a little funny when Wes explained that he was just digging up a
little history. Actually Wes was one of Chief Smith’s
volunteer firemen and Norm is a great source of knowledge about Center Line.
He even told me how during some years more people were removed from this
cemetery than were buried. It seemed that back in
the old days you did not walk on graves. You had to
stick to the aisles. Also there was no caretaker as
the church was too poor to pay one so families were responsible for maintaining
the gravesites and the aisle next to it. Some did not which led eventually to the cemetery being
greatly overrun with vines, weeds and underbrush so thick that people could not
easily visit their loved ones or properly conduct burials.
The pastor probably felt at that time that it was a huge disgrace so he
encouraged people to bury their loved ones elsewhere such as at Mt Olivet (opened
in 1888) down Van Dyke or, Mt. Elliott (opened in 1841).
These cemeteries were maintained properly. He
also encouraged people to have their loved ones removed and buried there.
So some years more people were removed from the cemetery than were buried
there that year. By the way cemetery caretakers were
not always careful about not bumping stones as they mowed.
Sometimes stones would fall down or get pushed into the low trough that
was made when an old wooden casket finally caved in. Another
good reason not to walk on graves was that your body weight might cause your foot
break the rotting cover of an old grave and you literally could fall into a grave.
Many burials were in winter and dug by hand in frozen ground and sometimes
weren’t always dug too deep. Note that weathering on stones can be slowed down by cleaning
them, coloring in the letters then applying coatings of brick sealer.
Wesley Arnold has recorded all of the stones in six cemeteries so that
the record of the stones will be preserved even if it becomes unreadable.
Families should look after the grave sites of their ancestors because it
is their responsibility, and they should record the record on the stones. Some
people have reported that visiting the family site sometimes gives them a feeling
of happiness and peace. People could make it a short
visit and also make it part of a family outing such as visiting a cider mill and
park. This could be a chance to tell the children
about the family history. Where were your great grand parents during the civil war?
Which side did they fight on? Where did their
parents come from?
Lastly most people don’t realize that most of
our ancestors lie in unmarked, forgotten graves. Most
of them during the last few thousand years were farmers.
When someone died and there were family survivors in decent enough health
they buried the person out back on the farm made a wooden marker or piled on a
few rocks. As years went by the rocks became overgrown
with weeds and the wooden marker rotted away. Farms
changed owners sometimes by brut force. Then new farmers
moved the rocks to the fence line and plough the ground unknowing or uncaring
that someone was buried there. Remember in the old
days there were no granite marker companies or stone cutters available to most
people. Where are your great great grand parents buried?
Do they have markers?
Detroit Memorial Park Cemetery was established in 1925.